Handle problematic and difficult people with ease
Wherever we go, we always encounter a certain number of problematic and difficult people; people who go out of their way to create problems and make life difficult for other people. You have to determine first whether that person’s problem is affecting you in any way. If not, you do have not a problem at hand and need not have to do anything. If that person’s problem is causing you harm in some way, then he is a problem to you and you should do something to correct the situation. In dealing with such people, it is imperative that you first find out the reason for his difficulty, ie why is he doing what he is doing or why is he saying what he is saying. Find out what is his problem so that you can help him solve it. When his problem is solved, then you will no longer have a difficult person on your hands.
The best way to do so is to skilfully ask your difficult subject questions in a subtle manner and listen carefully to his answers. You will have to listen between the lines for he would probably not tell you the truth initially. You also may not get the answer at the first round of questioning but would have to ask your questions over a period of time through informal conversations over a drink together.
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